Big Ideas

  1. We must have a network of mentors – in all walks of lives.
  2. People who have  mentors make more money. Also people who are mentors make more money.
  3. Busting the biggest fear of finding mentors:
    • What do I have to offer to them?
    • I am not good enough to have them as a mentor.
  4. Take it slow … its like any other relationship.
  5. Ask NOT what your mentor can do but ask what you can do for your mentor.
  6. Mentors want and crave : appreciation and encouragement. Leave them feeling more energized. Make them feel appreciated. Look for opportunities to help out your mentor.

How to get mentors

  1. Know yourself
    • What are you good at
    • What do you offer?
    • What do you want?
  2. Make a dream list and find people who are connected to them
    • Make a dream list of people you would like to have as mentors
    • Make another list: Who do I know that knows that person?
      • Use Linked in
      • Work backwards from the mentor you want …
      • Make a warm connect (higher chances of success)
  3. Connect with courage
    • Get clear on your fears (the feeling that you are impostor or don’t belong)
      • List them out
    • Create a courage ritual
      • Affirmations
      • Music
      • Power poses
      • Visualizing yourself succeeding
    • Do a small ask before a big ask

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