Big Ideas
- We must have a network of mentors – in all walks of lives.
- People who have mentors make more money. Also people who are mentors make more money.
- Busting the biggest fear of finding mentors:
- What do I have to offer to them?
- I am not good enough to have them as a mentor.
- Take it slow … its like any other relationship.
- Ask NOT what your mentor can do but ask what you can do for your mentor.
- Mentors want and crave : appreciation and encouragement. Leave them feeling more energized. Make them feel appreciated. Look for opportunities to help out your mentor.
How to get mentors
- Know yourself
- What are you good at
- What do you offer?
- What do you want?
- Make a dream list and find people who are connected to them
- Make a dream list of people you would like to have as mentors
- Make another list: Who do I know that knows that person?
- Use Linked in
- Work backwards from the mentor you want …
- Make a warm connect (higher chances of success)
- Connect with courage
- Get clear on your fears (the feeling that you are impostor or don’t belong)
- List them out
- Create a courage ritual
- Affirmations
- Music
- Power poses
- Visualizing yourself succeeding
- Do a small ask before a big ask
- Get clear on your fears (the feeling that you are impostor or don’t belong)